January 6th, 2008I am tired of being scared.
I am tired of being scared of everything.
I am tired of being afraid to step outside my door because of a sex offender who might live next door/down the street/around the corner from me.
I am tired of being afraid of the Chinese and how they’re trying to kill us all.
I am tired of being afraid of terrorism.
I am tired of taking my shoes off at the airport when it’s security alert orange.
I am tired of orange alerts and laissez-faire TSA screeners.
I am tired of parenting being a game of what is best and how much that costs and if you don’t spend it, then you don’t love your child.
I am tired of parents (other mothers, mostly) who are surprised that another mother would deign to want to go back to work, thrive in that environment, because why have a kid if you’re going to let someone else raise him and therefore miss out on all of the important firsts in his life?
I am just tired. That is all.

January 6th, 2008 at 4:44 pm
Ugh, me too. But you know, eff those others mothers. Because I am a SAHM and I’m telling you - it is hard no matter which you choose and sometimes I think my kid would be better off with some *qualified* person doing the raising. And I’m due with another one on Friday! Hang in there girly, 2008 will start kicking ass here soon. I hope!
January 7th, 2008 at 9:44 am
Sing it, sister.
January 7th, 2008 at 9:44 am
Totally random question - how do the Blogher ads work and do you like them?
January 7th, 2008 at 7:48 pm
WORD.
January 9th, 2008 at 8:09 am
So true.
January 9th, 2008 at 11:04 am
Ditto!
January 15th, 2008 at 9:03 am
I’m a SAHM mom but we are broke, broke, broke. And I take heart to read how well your life is going (what with working and taking care of Matthew when you get home.) When I think about the day I will have to put my daughter in daycare it’s situations like yours that give me strength.
I’m tired of mothers who have nothing better to do than bash other mothers.