March 11th, 2008the parenting game
Occasionally I read Ask Moxie, but grudgingly so; her posts on sleep got me through the night (har, har) when Matthew was a baby. I started my sourness on her when that Dangerous Book for Boys came out and she came up with her own list that made my eyes roll madly. But she’s still in my RSS feed, and then today’s post made my eyes fall out of my head.
The fall before you want your child to start (and here they start either at 2 1/2 or 3 1/2), you start requesting applications. (You should already have done your research on which schools you want to apply to through a combination of reading the NYC preschool guidebooks, researching online, and talking to everyone you meet at the playground.) Some schools have applications downloadable from their websites, while the ones that really do enjoy being competitive force you to call and get on a list to have the app mailed to you. (If you call too late and they’ve run out of applications, too bad for you.) You fill out the application, which can be as simple as filling in the facts and writing a few two-paragraph descriptions of your child and your educational goals for your child, or as extensive as six one-page essays on any number of topics.
Insane. Starting the competitive pressure crap so young. And not to mention classist - I can’t imagine a situation where the single mom with 2 jobs is doing all of that to get their kid into a preschool.
It starts here, people. When people complain about affirmative action and how students are coming to school ill-prepared and unable to compete - this is why: because we’re starting the rat race when some kids are 2 1/2. Insane.

March 12th, 2008 at 8:26 pm
Do not even get me started. A friend of mine (who shall remain nameless) has already started looking for her daughter’s preschool & she doesn’t even want her to start for another year or more! And she is bitching that she is starting so late *shock*. And I had a mom on the playground ask me if I’d started the preschool hunt yet… meaning had I gotten D on any lists & such. OMG… NO. He is not even 2. Seriously. I do not want him to have to worry about this crap until he is looking at college. Or at least potty trained *eyeroll* UGH.
March 16th, 2008 at 8:33 am
I noticed that instead of filling out his college applications my baby just drooled on them and ate them. he’s doomed. already. and he’s only 10 months old.
March 18th, 2008 at 5:58 am
Hurray! I can’t believe you read Antiracist Parent! That’s awesome!
March 19th, 2008 at 4:53 am
Then my boys are screwed even more because we’ve done the half-assed preschool deal in our house. Besides, you’ve seen them in action, they’ll beat the crap out of anyone who makes fun of them.
March 19th, 2008 at 7:51 pm
I read AM with waning interest these days, as well. It’s a combination of a little bit of eye-rolling, but mostly because I have all the answers now. Heh.
Tagaroo, you are it!
http://inwiththenew.typepad.com/weblog/2008/03/tag-im-it-seven.html